Saturday, October 24, 2009

So Much....

Yes, I'm still off line, but managing to sneak in a quick post.

So much has happened in the past week or so....a lot of it heart breaking.
We lost two friends last week. Two young, vibrant, amazing, kind people taken from this earth much too soon. Three friends really as one was seven months pregnant with her first baby. Sad...sad...sad...There have been a lot of tears shed, alot of unexplained frustration, anger and just resignation as well. It's just so wrong. Yes, life is not fair. This I know. But still....sometimes it's too much, too overwhelming, too painful and too wrong.
What will I learn from these losses? There's always an opportunity to learn...to not take people for granted, or worry what they think when getting in touch after a long time, keep in touch, take better care of myself, and enjoy life. These are tall orders, but taken a tiny step at a time it all adds up into something better.
Both of my friends, Trent & Melanie, enjoyed life to it's fullest. They embraced it and tried new activities...daunting activities like marathoning, stand up comedy and embarking on the path to parenthood.
There's is so much more to be said about these amazing souls, however now is not the best time. Soon....

And to add to our good week...our whole household has the flu! GI & RI! Ugh! There's a whole lot of spilling going on! Imagine spending the night between my FH and W, both of whom are spilling off and on throughout the night....only to work in the morning with your chest on fire...oh it's an entertaining day here at the H Household!

Hope you all are well and this upcoming Halloween week find you in good health & happiness.
M

5 comments:

  1. Can I bring you anything????? Please! You sound miserable.

    Moe

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  2. Aw Mrs.M.....what is with this crazy life we are all a part of. It is true, too early, too soon but true again, huge lessons for us sitting back, watching.
    We only ever get one journey on this earth, and these sad instances remind us of this true fact....live for today!
    Yes, M and D mentioned seeing many of you guys there. I actually asked D if there were many young people there and he said, "middle aged, you mean?"
    ......middle aged? me?
    .....ho-ly Batman, we are!
    there we go ladies....let's get a move on, the years are tickin by!
    A toast to all and us!
    s

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  3. Thanks Ladies!
    Can you bring me some rum, Moe? Frozen rum? lol...kidding!
    I'm okay...just feeling like I need a bed and no interruptions until the morning. Tomorrow is a new day!

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  4. Glad we were there to help on a tough day. But ---middle aged---- yikes!!!!! What does that make our, so, young at heart, generation???? You guys are all still --KIDS!

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  5. here's hoping your week improved and you are all feeling better!
    you can drink to that ;)

    to your health!!

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